Should I go on a second date?

Recently went on a date with a guy. The conversation was great, we had a lot in common etc.

He has a job, steady income, isn’t creepy. What more could a girl ask for right?

Problem: I’m not that attracted to him. I’m sure he’s a great looking guy otherwise, I’m just not into the way he looks.

So, what should I do? Go on a second date or call it quits now?

Some people say attraction grows over time. Am I too shallow if I say no to a second date or could I be turning down a good thing??

5 thoughts on “Should I go on a second date?

  1. Physical attraction is important, but not the most important thing. True beauty is on the inside. Give the dude a few more dates. Sometimes what we see on the inside changes what we see on the outside. And sometimes it doesn’t. You just have to give it some time to find out.

  2. I would argue that you should not go on a second date. While looks and attraction are only part of the equation, it is still a part of it. If you aren’t attracted to him… you just aren’t attracted to him. In my opinion, if you have to ask the question, “should I go on a second date,” the answer is always no.

  3. What should you do? I’ll tell you what you shouldn’t do. Don’t blog online about debating whether you should go with him on a second date. What if he saw this blog post? #HugeTurnoff

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